We don't want to see what others see easily. Not that they are always right. My husband certainly has a side to him that not many people see, being military, but now he reserves all the kindness for the OW.

Again, I'm so sorry, and my prayers are with you.

ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011