I too am so sorry. I have been following your sitch off and on. I was so hopeful for you but I also had the a suspicion that your H still hadn't resolved all of his issues...IMO, he most likely needs to spend time alone to figure himself out but he can't seem to do that. It is like he is addicted to the hunt and chase possible because he can't handle the intimacy of a real relationship.
I wish you much peace and strength in what ever you do.
