Questions for the Letting Go Vets

[gr8 day 2B alive]

I didn't acknowledge my W's birthday or our anniversary (same day), except to take the kids to get her gifts from them.

In fact, I went out and stayed out all night without so much as a phone call or text to let her know that I would not be home.

I don't know if that helped or hurt my situation, but I didn't think I needed to acknowledge either since she had already filed for D. We are separated now.

Yes, all correct.
It didn't hurt it so don't worry.