WAW left on Independence Day and not communicating

[Doodi]

You got it. Don't send it. It seems to me that you are trying to convince yourself that you want to send it just because it's the nice thing to do, but reading your posts you truly have deeper more needful reasons. I really don't see anything bad coming from you NOT sending a greeting, but I do see the damage if you do.

I do want to add this. I can only offer advice. You are in the end the one who has to look into the mirror and be ok with whatever you've done. Make your decision and own it. Whatever the outcome is, it will not be against me or Pinhead or anyone but you, so make sure you are truly at peace with whatever you decide and are aware of the possible ramifications of that choice.

You will do what's right for you. Believe that.
Doodi