I'm not sure what you are trying to accomplish. Even if you can prevent the divorce, you can't make her love you and certainly not by forcing her to say married. If you've spent any time on this site and done the necessary reading you should know that the only chance you have to turn her around is to let her go and hope she comes full circle by herself. In the meantime, you need to work on yourself and start detaching.
We all know how hard this is, but it is the best way.
