Doodi,

I will send you a Bday I promise! I guess I feel like every action either from the WAS or the LBS is viewed under a microscope because all of our emotions are at a peak and are raw!

I want to send my W the email because it is the right thing to do (my heart speaking) and naturally it is a goodwill gesture....possibly melting the ice a bit. But will she view the gesture as manipulation or me just hanging on? Also, sending the email does not support my words of letting her go, thus confusing her.

I keep reading that the WAS is far ahead in the dept. of detachment and that the LBS needs to catchh-up...again the email indicates that I am still in the starting blocks...I know that I am, but my W doesn't...until I send her the email.

You still think I should not send it....right?