On two ends of the world..

[Doodi]

Hey Ris,

I still think that detaching will benefit you. I know it seems crazy but like I said in my thread sometimes its the space from the R that will let your spouse clear out some of his confusion. It is scary and I understand your hesitation towards it. Remember you can't miss what isn't gone. Disclaimer**It is probably a lot easier for in my sitch because I'm still in the house, so his anxieties aren't as high.

I think if you really through your self into GAL, you might find less time to worry about what he's doing or not doing. Just keep busy, if you can't fidn something to do I could always use a hand scrubbing my house. Just throwing that out there!

Keep your chin up,
Doodi