Blindsided, Just served with papers!

[Doodi]

I agree with Bluestar (I almost said BS...now that's funny) that she is up to something. She seems like she's just being hateful and vindictive. Problem points I see...

*If she filed, she should be there with bells on ready, willing and able to get what she asked for.

*Using your kids to hit you where it hurts--the only thing left to use against you

*Listening in on calls and then picking fights over it.

*Talking out of both sides of her mouth--I want you to spend time with the kids...But it has to be on MY terms. UH NO!

*Worrying about what you're doing at 9pm. None ya business.

I guess you get that I'm not feeling her actions at all. I personally don't do well with game playing and that's what it feels like she's doing. She's trying to control and bait. Why, I don't know...but I wouldn't care either. I don't see how playing games and picking fights will lead to positive.

I would just have to stay focused on my kids and what is good for them. She'll have to deal. You are absolutely entitled to see them and if she didn't at least check to see if it was ok to book up their entire weekend then she just has to deal with changing her plans. I know it's easier said than done but don't give in.

Good Luck
Doodi