Your husband's choices do not define you. They define him. You are Newmama. You are amazing. You are raising a child ALONE. How capable you are!
It is weird being the odd one out... this year seems to be the year of weddings and babies. It makes me uncomfortable, my new role as a separated new mum. But then I think.. No, I am Piano. I am not a label. I have love in my life. I know that behind those wedding bands and picket fences there are problems. I am separated NOW, but in time I won't be...and in time, some of these friends in couples will be separated. It's just accepting that everyone has problems, we just don't all face them at the same time.


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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