What's your plan? Now that you're in your new place, have you thought about what you want the schedule to look like? Before you get into any discussion with her again, I would write down ideally what you want it to be and then think about what you're willing to settle for. As the guys say, take the lead on the issue.
I think she's up to something. For her to pull this kind of last minute late night talk on the same day the hearing was postponed....something just feels wrong to me.
