Questions for the Letting Go Vets

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First question

If she sends an email that asks a question but it's purpose seems to be just to start an argument or email war how do I respond.

i.e "Who gave you permission to do that" ( it was a small thing regarding using a joint asset that she regards as hers so i didn't need her permission )

Separate yourself financially from your wife.

Arguing over money is not even a mediocre way to attempt reconciliation after infidelity.
I'd accept I was depressed or confused and vulnerable before: "Don't touch my money. Mine mine mine not Ours."

is she a loser or what?

Use your money to go out and start having a great time with other people. TGIF.



Personally, my favorite response, after you use, "I'm busy, I'll talk to you later" a few times is: "If you haven't notice, I don't want to talk to you any more." "You need to get a life" is a good one too.

That's a good one, McQueen. My cheating H has said that to me quite a few times. Guess it's cause of NC on Christmas, New Year's, our anni, my bday, and next up is his milestone bday. Felt like telling him I don't talk to you at all, what do you think that means? Instead, I laughed at him.