The difference is with MLC the MLC'er is so screwed up mentally, they truly believe they are in love, and just like a wayward teen they feel they have to follow their heart.
They have no regard for who they hurt or what the consequences are.
BND,
Probably 90%+ of the affairs that I follow report the same thing. "Fogged out," "alien," "this is NOT the person I married, etc."
I think the only valid distinction here is, is the MLC affair one in a SERIES of addictions, and did it happen after some specific, traumatic life event? Cuz other than that, I just don't see much difference in the presented behaviors.
