IDU,

I feel for you so much. It would be difficult to give up such a nice property that you and the kids enjoy so much. You are right that your W will have to make some big changes too. Maybe she will see that before it is too late.

You are right that you have to what is best for the kids, and I know you will. It will be difficult on them. I know that my kids are going to experience this more as time goes on.

I know you have fear, but fear can be replaced with other emotions such as peace or relief.

I have some of those, but I still miss the little ones and even her from time to time. I wish I did not, but I cannot shut out my feelings. Time will help me to do that I believe. It will help you too.

It will be better in someways, and it will take time to see that.

You will be okay no matter what.

You are doing great, and I hope nothing but happiness for you.


ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010
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