Nice. See if there is anything you can "do" in the meantine to protect yourself.
Surely, there must be a way to ask the mediation lawyer a few questions for advice prior to Monday?
No, I'm ok, there is no money to steal lol. I'll set up my next paycheck to be 40% into my other acct. All bills are not due til towards end of month. Mortgage and important ones are taken care of already.
Should I ask her how much for her rent and just plan around it?
This is an area that some men fine to be difficult, b/c (being men) they feel it's their place to help with W's finances. But change your thinking on this line. Remember that everything you do to "help" her live apart from you is enabling the S/A.
It's very difficult because I'm the honest and trying to play fair guy. Where she's now endangering my well being off of emotions and careless feelings. She's changed her mind way too many times for me to even keep up. I just want a binding written agreement that's fair.
I do not have to withdraw Dissolution paperwork either. The agreement can be given to judge at hearing, so she can't accuse me of stalling her freedom. Unfortunately, at this point I want out of it too. I love her but she's not even close to the woman I married.
I love her but she's not even close to the woman I married.
Well, the thing that is important here is that you want respect from your wife. That's understandable. Who wants to stay in a relationship with somebody who doesn't love them really?
But your statement reminds me of an Einstein quote: "Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So each is inevitably disappointed"--Albert Einstein.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
