Thanks for the clearer definition for detachment. I am getting to the point that I would be okay if the worst happens. I really have no choice since I have not spoken with her.
The right thing to do is send an email Bd greeting with maybe humor (I baked a cupcake for you, but couldn't send through email) or something to that effect. However. if I want to demonstrate to her that I am detaching from her then I wouldn't send a thing. Still the paradox continues. What is right vs what I should do?...probably do the right thing even though it may delay or hinder any future progress (I know mind reading).
