I wasn't suggesting it didn't, but I thought that maybe asking this will help put it in perspective of not getting an immediate result/reaction, but just doing the right thing.
There is nothing wrong to send a b-day card to your WAS.
Just like there is nothing wrong to send a b-day card to the slimy smelly guy in a cubicle next to you who's farts annoy you daily.
It's a nice thing to do and it does not require any response.
