I cannot stress enough that when you are emotionally drained, or tired, you are vulnerable to making bad decisions. And physical activity is a way to increase your energy levels. It will also release endorphins that will aid in emotional well-being and mental acuity.
Tell him that one thing you are going to do for you is get in shape. That you have figured out a walking route and want to start doing it daily. Then when you feel boxed in, get out and hit it. A side effect is that it will give you a half hour or so of "alone time". It's a win-win. Plus soon you'll start feeling better about your self image.
Do it today dood. I promise it will help in just a few short days.
ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE. -Tom Highway
Me: 43 W: 40 S12 & S9 Married 17yrs Together 20yrs