I don't know...I hope that we are together in two years. There appears to be two approches here. First of all I am not detached and still trying to figure that out for myself.
The first path is that I let her go last week so staying true to my word I would let her go by noy sending the Bd email. MY wife is ahead in detaching I know that and I have been told that I have to catch up...so this is visually to her catching up.
The second path is that I have an opportunity to maybe thaw her out a bit and maybe begin a dialogue in the near future by sending the Bd email.
I am perplexed and just need guidance. My heart says send the email, but my mind says No that I have to find a way to stop her running away (I know mind reading).
