So the proverb to the story....patience and work on my GAL? My W gave me a gift of silence so I should take full advantage of it? I need to read PH's attachment on detachment. As an engineer I see a lot of words thrown around here detachment being one of them. If I was detached from my W then I probably wouldn't care if we D'd or not and I wouldn't be lurking on this site all day looking for answers.
I still think that logically if I am detached the best way to show it is to not send the email on Friday to my W. Why would she care if she is ahead in the detaching dept. Although, I am not emotionally detached I could demonstrate psuedo detachment to my W by not sending it.
