A new beginning to an end

[ImprovedRomeo]

I don't think a D is the end of the world. Lots of people remarry or get back together after a D. I think once someone's filed for a D and you've told them many times you don't want it then from your perspective it should be over. All this talk does nothing really but shows your feelings or weakness. My response basically said this to him...that it's too late for these talks, he knows you never wanted this but now you've accepted it- so if he's having second thoughts then prove it.

The thing is talking in these situations never changed anything, it's about actions. You have to show him with your actions that you're fine moving on and only then he'll really understand what it's like to lose you. Only then he might take actions that will speak to YOU in a way that shows that he really does want you back. Just words alone don't mean much.

All this might be nothing more than just some temperature checking for tomorrow's court date.

So, perhaps it is best to not respond at all.