why not show him the door isn't locked, but leave it up to him whether or not to open it and walk back through...
How? With what words? Advise me. I have told him 8 thousand times I do not want a D. That I am willing to work on M. That I want him to be happy, even if that doesn't include me in his future. 2 weeks ago he's telling me how we can work on R after the D, that our M is just a piece of paper, then he buys all new furniture for the house. Now he said he isn't happy/won't ever be happy and I told him I wish there was something I could do to make him happy. That was met by him saying how he can't imagine being without me, etc, that love isn't the problem, etc.
I feel torn. Like maybe I shouldn't say anything at all. What about me? and I do hear CG loud and clear about being suspicious. Yet as retarded as it is, I still love him.l I really think I need to have my head examined.
Ladies and gentlemen...I wouldn't wish any of our sitches on anyone.
