Questions for the Letting Go Vets

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Hi All,
Just wanted to set up a separate thread for this as I believe the lead up to this is less important than some specifics on how to handle it.

First question

If she sends an email that asks a question but it's purpose seems to be just to start an argument or email war how do I respond.

i.e "Who gave you permission to do that" ( it was a small thing regarding using a joint asset that she regards as hers so i didn't need her permission )

1. No response.
2. Cold clinical answer to her question with no emotion attached.
3. Upbeat and friendly email with the question answered.


Khudoo

Dead silence is the correct answer.