Reading Doodi's thread made me wonder that maybe during the time when we fight so much, maybe H is trying to deal with some issues of his own that I know he has.. not to say that I'm blameless but I seriously don't feel that my behavior didn't warrant some responses I got from him. So in that case the right thing to do would be take pressure off him and just leave him be? I still mean sticking to boundaries, but just not initiating contact or doing anything, but letting him have his own space.
However, thinking this way I feel like I'm regressing but I can't put a finger on why I feel so...
Accept that there is only one thing you can change in life and that is you
