These feelings of waywardness that build up take TIME, it sin't overnight... and during this time of processing THAT is when you SPEAK UP LOUDLY.. you don't mumble and hide in a corner to fester in secret...
2 years ago, I had a crush on a customer that came into my work. I kept that to myself, talked to him alot, but didn't directly (or indirectly) act on it. Crush had no idea. After a while, became aware that it was reciprocal. At that point, told my bf, who also worked there; completely backed off and maintained distance until it passed. Meanwhile, at home, H was not meeting my needs left & right. However, that still wasn't enough to justify having A.
Made the mistake of telling H this story shortly before moving out. H freaked and told me that my un-acted on crush was the same as his PA. Assume that H's OW was the first crush he had since we got together which may be why H didn't have the sense to do the right thing.
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Last edited by Vulcanized; 09/09/1009:39 PM.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
