Sol - I'm not sure what to tell you. On one hand I am suspicious of your H. My H did the same thing before court.
In fact, now that our proceedings are about to start again my H is doing it to me again. I kid you not, he e-mailed me y'day and asked why I am adamant about getting a divorce? I mean.. other than the fact his affair is going on year THREE and they live together... who wouldn't want a husband like that? LOL!
You don't have to respond to him right now - as in this minute. Step back for an hour or two.