Ok all, not much to report. Showed up at the hearing, W wasnt even there. Her attorney was there and said they need an extension due to the fact the previous hearing is running long, so I now have to wait until Oct. 7th. I provided my paperwork to W's L and said, it doesnt look pretty. W's L said maybe we can work out an agreement prior to the rescheduled hearing, I was upbeat andsaid Im sure we can. So I sat in the court and waiting to be sworn in(this way) the Judge acknowledges that I did in fact appear, and it cant be a default judgement. As I am sitting there, the previous case petitioner(an attractive 40 something blond) walks in and says "who are you". I said I have nothing to do with oyur case just waiting to get swonr in for my case. She said "oh, you're cute". I smiled said thank you and the W's L overheard it. I was laughing inside, if only the W was there and heard it what a classic outcome it would have been.
So really no step forward or back, another 30 days to DB and be "legally" married. I dont know why the W would not show up, I guess she really didnt need to be there. I have not had any contact from her or to her since those texts from her yesterday. I will need to contact her and see if the kids are spending the night with me Saturday. She is the one who mentioned the family pool outing Sunday, I will not bring it up, if she does, she does.
