I get that people have needs that go unmet. I get that people feel urges to look elsewhere to meet them.
What I draw the line on this LYING about taking action.
There are things I want to own... motorcycle, etc... I look at magazines.. I even checked them out at an auto show...
But I am NOT going to LIE to my wife and BUY a motorcycle in SECRET and DRIVE it around town behind her back for months and months...
Feeling wayward and feeling like straying is understandable.. I have issue with ACTING on that in ways that are not constructive.
If I want a motorcycle, I TALK to my WIFE about it... If she's not around... I write her a letter... I do everything I can to get HER in teh LOOP before I buy it...
These feelings of waywardness that build up take TIME, it sin't overnight... and during this time of processing THAT is when you SPEAK UP LOUDLY.. you don't mumble and hide in a corner to fester in secret...
