That's entirely possible, Cyrena (and I'm very sorry for your pain). Unfortunately, most of the authors and researchers who classify the different types of affairs -- like Lusterman -- don't even really ADDRESS the whole "what to do about it" question.
Puppy
Part of what drew me to this site is that Michelle W-D does classify an MLC affair as being in a class of its own, as well as offering advice for how to handle it.
