Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
I'm saying that all affairs should be treated as a SYMPTOM and as an IMMEDIATE OBSTACLE to marital reconciliation.
While I agree that the affair is an obstacle, in MLC it is only a symptom and the PILL to cure the disease may not be exposure.

I think since we all seem to be giving advice on this subject we need to continue to discuss this to at least understand all the points of view.