A new beginning to an end

[soleil]

First, thank you ALL for responding. I was having a mini meltdown since early a.m. this morning. There aren't enough words to describe how thankful I am to all of you. Always here for me countless times when I most need it! You guys are angels.

I did not write him back about not sleeping well. I was tempted to write him that maybe ti's best we don't communicate right now but I didn't write anything.

My L advised me H's L will not respond at all w/ regards to sharing financial statements/records. H's L also tried to schedule a final hearing and my L told him he opposed that since he has file it through a docket or something (legal speak).

How the hell can his L try to set a final trial date if we haven't even figured out a PSA? Grr.

So I need to fill out some info for my L and tomorrow I'll be seeing my H in court should nothing happen before then. Funny how life is. I still remember kissing him after we were pronounced married like it was yesterday. My hair was long and flowing and... nostalgia is such [censored]. LOL.

I think he is trying to put you in the position of being responsible for everything. And he needs to take some responsibility.

I think you're right.

"Unless you choose to try to woo me into being your significant other with charm, care, wit, and hot sex, these texts are inappropriate and not OK. And, FWIW, I am not wooable by men who are not free to woo."

This response was cute and brought a smile to my face. What is FWIW, by the way?

"Sorry you're feeling this way but really what's the point of all these talks now? You've clearly decided you don't want me in your life, fine, I get it. And perhaps you're right- it is for the best."
Words are cheap.

Words are cheap and divorce is expensive.
Ain't that the damn truth?

Sigh.