WAW left on Independence Day and not communicating

[TimeHeals]

but my W thinks I am especially if I do not send a b-day card.

Mind read much? How do you know what she will think? What if she thought you were brooding at home because of all of this? Does it matter?

You see, you do what you do because it is the right thing. Not because of some emotional thing that is going to change 5 minutes from now, and obsessively going over and over and over things is just driving yourself nuts and keeping you from letting go.

I think I am an enabler.