Quote:
I am a fixer by nature


Codependent: if you fix her, then she'll love you?

Seriously, let her go. It's OK to say happy birthday. It's not OK to try to "fix somebody".

That is your focus. Find a new focus. How are you doing for dryer sheets? Stocked up?

Quote:
I am lucky because my W has given me a gift of time so that gives me a chance to develop a game plan so that I act logically and not emotionally.


You act according to your principles. Emotions are things you feel (happiness, sadness, anger, confusion, excited, and so on), so you just feel those.

You ever felt your towels after they come out of the dryer and you used some really good dryer sheets?

Last edited by TimeHeals; 09/09/10 08:03 PM.
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D-filed 5/27/2010
Piecing - 10/21/2010
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