When it comes to my job if I have the data I can make clear and informed decison...I do it daily, but the limbo that I am in with my M has me totally befuddled. I am a fixer by nature as I think most men are. I am doing GAL and 180's, IC and LRT so as not to pursue my W.
I think most if not all start GAL so their spouse will recognize the change, but hopefully transition to doing GAL for themsleves, which coorelates with detachment. I am lucky because my W has given me a gift of time so that gives me a chance to develop a game plan so that I act logically and not emotionally.
