Well it does sound like that is the problem then in a nutshell.
I would say that on the MLC board all affairs are not treated differently. They are all treated as MLC affairs.
I would guess you are telling me that the same would apply for the infidelity board also, no one is thinking that there are different types of affairs.
I have never read anything like that before.
I am gathering that neither have you.
Sorry, but I'm not following you.
I'm saying that all affairs should be treated as a SYMPTOM and as an IMMEDIATE OBSTACLE to marital reconciliation. Not classified into certain types that supposedly require a more passive approach.