"In regards to the b-day email my concern is that my W will see it as manipulation on my part."

Mindreading. Why on earth would you think she would see this as "manipulation"? Just a simple "Just wanted to wish you a very Happy Birthday. LBS" and that's that. It's not pursuit. It's being courteous and considerate.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER