You didn't say you were staying either. Nature abhors a vacuum, and in an absence of info, he assumed the worst case
Up until about 3 weeks ago, I told him I wasn't going anywhere. That I wasn't planning anything, that I just needed to work out these thoughts in my head. He found out how negative they were when he hacked an account and since has pushed and pushed for some definite answer. That's when I told him, "if I have to make a decision today, I would go. I'm not ready to make that decision but I understand your need to have an answer. Our M is not healthy and something needs to change. All I can change is me, if you think you need to change then work on it."
If that is still confusing, then I'm guilty and you guys need to keep the 2x4's coming.
"I feel like Rocky in the fifteenth round, beaten beyond recognition, when I realize, the only person I've been fighting for is...myself."
