Originally Posted By: DanF
Originally Posted By: Ready2Change
Originally Posted By: Khudoo

i.e "Who gave you permission to do that" ( it was a small thing regarding using a joint asset that she regards as hers so i didn't need her permission )


"The Dishwasher police."


Is sarcastic smartass really the way to go? If so, I should be a pro at this already!


Just one option. Kinda an inside joke....MsR2C was upset that I was helping load the dishwasher (the wrong way)...Another DBer stated that there are no dishwasher police....

Other choices:

I feel this is the best - Do not respond if you feel it will start a fight.

Next best -- Light humor with a smile and the right tone with confidence if done in person

"I did"

"Sounds like you have an issue with me using my things"

"I don't need permission to use our family belongings"

"GOD did"

"Did you"

"I am not discussing this with you"



"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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