Thank you. I know that what I said is a double edge sword in that the spouse can be abusive or that emotions control the interaction and in essence push eachother farther away.
I know the script of the WAW in that she is detaching. It is probably a gift that she is giving me w/o really knowing it in that is gives me time to collect myself, detach or at least be in a better position of that when she does start moving (if ever).
