I know that when I was acting like the B*tch from hell, and trying to control my Husband's actions, contacting OW, letting everyone know about how my Husband was carrying on, and forsaking his marriage vows, nothing seemed to change.
Of course not!! Who's advocating being a b*tch/b*stard from hell?
Exposure, properly done, should be calm, controlled, business-like, and (like spanking), NOT from a position of anger.
BND, thank you for sharing your own experience. It's obviously that it's had a strong influence on your position on this sensitive topic.
