I don't know, but I sure will be relieved. I still think acknowledging her b-day is counter to letting her go. But if an email warms her then that would be good as well. Which path should I take.....I am still at a loss.
My sitch is different in that I have no contact at all with my W. Last Thursday was a shock when she emailed me and I still think it was because I went dark and let her go.
