Sol, sorry jumping in late but I agree with the above comments. What you should tell him is something like:

"Sorry you're feeling this way but really what's the point of all these talks now? You've clearly decided you don't want me in your life, fine, I get it. And perhaps you're right- it is for the best."

That's it. I'm almost certain he's worrying about the court date tomorrow and potentially does miss you since he probably lost one of his best friends. But he can't see any weakness in you, he needs to prove by action that he wants you back not words. Words are cheap.

(((hugs)))


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again