I MAY try to read through your sitch. I won't have my kids for the next week, so I will have some time on my hands.
In many ways your sitch is similar to mine, except for the sex part. I believe my W felt alone too because I was preoccupied with other things. Will she feel less alone on her own? Will that really be better?
She also complained that she was overwhelmed, but I needed specifics rather than generalities. When I asked her why she didn't ask me for help, her answer was that she shouldn't have to.
She felt that she was never good enough for me to pay attention to, but was always good enough for me to have sex with. Many times it was more sex than lovemaking and that didn't sit well with her.
Right now I just feel like I have to accept it is over and move on, but it is so hard.
