MY W called me today to very kindly let me know that she contacted a family mediator. She asked me to check out their web site and see if it was something I was OK with and set up an appointment.
What do I do? I have been a pushover for 6 months and it feels like she is just expecting me to go happily along with this. Do I fight it? Plead? Tell her that I will fight for custody of the kids? We need to talk about my demands. How does she see out life post-divorce? The children? Custody? She thinks I will be coming and going on a daily basis and making the transition as easy on her and the kids as possible.
I don't know. Do I want things to work out? Yes. I just don't know if I start pushing back or do I go along and be relatively agreeable as long as I am satisfied. How do I stop this?
I want to say, "So, you really want to destroy this family?" And I want to tell her how detrimental her therapist has been to her state of mind and her outlook on her family. I want to kick down the wall and tell her that this will NOT be what you think it will be. The first step is important....
