You aren't D O N E, neither is STBX. Otherwise, he wouldn't be texting and you wouldn't be trying to manage him.
His behavior is not working for you. Set a boundary.
"Unless you choose to try to woo me into being your significant other with charm, care, wit, and hot sex, these texts are inappropriate and not OK. And, FWIW, I am not wooable by men who are not free to woo."
