Every bit of research shows that unless there was abuse in the home, divorce is a net negative for kids, and the damage done manifests itself in their later lives.
I don't think anyone is arguing this point.
Right now, most people on this site are in an unhealthy relationship with their spouse. This dramatically affects the children.
Most people on this site have a hard time seeing their part in fall of the R. They have a hard time seeing how their CURRENT actions are driving their partner farther away.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
