We will not be equipped to deal with the damage if we cannot even admit that it will exist.
Is that what you and 40 were doing? Talking about how to deal with things?
I didn't get that when I read your posts. I read a lot of what sounded like blaming your spouses for all of the damage to your kids, and no empathy whatsoever for your spouses.
Well then you really need to read slower because you definitely didn't see me blame my spouse and you must have missed the part where I said that I was worried about her.