I want to be done because I am done not because I have met someone else. I question if this is possible since I am pretty sure I will always "love" my wife to some degree.
Yes guys, it is very possible.
You will always love your S to some degree. It is no different than when someone we love dies. Just because they are no longer present, are unable to return that love, does NOT mean that we don't love them.
You will not question this once you reach that point of knowing you are done. UNLESS you already have someone in your life. If you are uncertain, and you meet someone, and THEN you decide that you are done, chances are, it is not because you have found that place of peace, but because you have found another...
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
