Thanks - I will be thinking about YOU too - just not in that "way". LOL
On a serious note - the feeling you are going through I think are normal. I still stand my earlier comment that maybe we need to spend less time trying to determine if we are done and just live life. I think you are right we may just wake up one day and realize that we are done.
The challenge (and sorry to post this on your thread as I think it is a sensitive topic) we may face is....
We are vulnerable - We have been treated like Chit for a while We are lonely We miss the bond of a partner We miss intimacy We are emotionally open and raw
So are we saying we are done because of the above OR because we are done?
I think we the LBS's can run too. Run when the chit hits the fan and we say we are done. The reasons we say done vary...
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans