While cat waits for an answer: one thing I would very much encourage you to do, Bobby. Stay the course of no contact. Only make contact with those family members if you are able to handle it. Going dark is good for you and your ability to regroup. Without that constant "what is she doing" etc. It'll help your mindset and give you perspective in ways you have yet to see.
Keep the distance lest you get sucked into the insanity Bobby.
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
