Went to see my IC this morning. I don't have much to learn from him anymore.
He offered no wisdom as to why W is handing me back the rope every time I drop it. He said that based on what I have told him about her it seems very out of character for her to do that and it indicates new level of confusion.
That she likes the fact that I am taking the control of the situation and have agreed with her by validating her feelings. But the fear between losing me and falling back to dissatisfying R still causes some anxiety. She clearly enjoys my company now more than before but he warned me from becoming her "older brother".
We both agreed that I need to remove myself physically from the house. She needs a taste of what she has been brewing all this time.
